it's the little moments that we spend with our friends that we should treasure and keep with us for the rest of our lives. every gathering, every outing, every evening spent with a variety of people that you can be comfortable in your own skin with; a night spent under the stars or just lying down on some comfortable bedsheets, talking the night away. they don't have to be your special someone - who says you can't do these things with friends? valuable and meaningful, we should do all we can never to miss out on opportunities such as these.

so for harold's birthday we went to eat steamboat then proceeded on to his house (for the 3rd time). Did pretty much standard stuff there, vodka-ed, watched movies, laughed at ivan getting drunk, they gambled, we dotaed, and we played harold's cool frets on fire game. i found out that kai and jiwei are total camwhores, taking an exact amount of 30 pictures together on harold's bed. sounds scandalous? ho i know a couple of girls who're going to get jealous if they ever read this. the result would be an extra spammage of smses on jiwei's phone and tags on kai's blog. but seeing as kai's already posted those photos on his blog, scrap that last point.

they gambled pretty much. with the numbers being thrown down ranging from 10 cents to like 5 bucks, i think the highest ever was marcus with one round 20 bucks bet. luckily he won that round, if not there'd have been a huge hole in his wallet. any wrong decision could cost you big. just like in life. no seriously, everyone's made wrong decisions before. most of the time spurred on by the moment 'cos of our feelings or perhaps due to a lack of accurate information. but whenever we do so we always regret them don't we, and sometimes we don't even dare to make decisions because of the absence of confidence and the insecurity that we have, whether our decisions will cause us to tumble straight into the abyss of failure and negative consequences or lead to successes and joyous moments for us.

that's life.

a gamble.